Good Morning Ysrayl…

I trust all is well with you this morning. Yesterday we talked about BUILDING NAKED and NOT ASHAMED with your SPOUSE. We ALSO talked about SUBMISSION of OUR BEAUTIFUL SISTERS being NATURAL but NOT FREE, and HOW ALLOWING her to SEE your NAKEDNESS gives her strength to SUBMIT to the MAN…

We are TAUGHT a VERSION of MARRIAGE and INTIMACY that comes from the PIT of DARKNESS in most cases. We are taught to go into MARRIAGE and RELATIONSHIP ONLY looking to INCREASE our OWN IMAGE and CAPITALIZE on our OWN DESIRES, and THAT IS NOT THE DESIGN of MARRIAGE according to the GENETICS of MANKIND. My LOVE and OPENNESS to my BABY is because she my BABY of course and that’s what she PULLS OUT of ME, but it was ALSO GIVEN TO HER BY YAH through the DESIGN of OUR MARRIAGE and the DESIGN of OUR GENETICS. So what that MEANS is ACCORDING to the DESIGN of MARRIAGE given to OUR GENETICS of NAKED, if I’m NOT NAKED and the THINGS that were GIVEN to MY GENETICS for HER are NOT MADE AVAILABLE to her, THEN I AM NOT BUILDING her ACCORDING to HER DESIGN as a WOMAN, and I’M not BUILDING her ACCORDING to the DESIGN of MARRIAGE for OUR GENETICS and REALITY. So if I’m NOT doing that I COULD NEVER EXPECT to SEE the FINISNED PRODUCT of LOVE, BEAUTY and SUBMISSION that YAH INTENDED from the BEGINNING.

BROTHERS TRUE SUBMISSION from your WOMAN is COMPLETELY VOLUNTARY. If YOU have to ASK for it or DEMAND it then IT IS NOT SUBMISSION. But what WE HAVE to remember is, WE FEEL LIKE our woman SHOULD SUBMIT to us because that’s the ORDER CREATED by YAH, but JUST BECAUSE that’s the ORDER DOES NOT MAKE YOU FIT to SUBMIT to. MANY of us MEN are in LOVE with our OWN IMAGE and UNDERSTANDING of OURSELVES that we BUILT for OURSELVES, the PROBLEM with that is YOU’RE NOT MARRIED to YOURSELF… So you don’t REALLY NEED to be TRYING to IMPRESS YOURSELF with your MAN ABILITIES… See the ONLY REASON I can even HALFWAY FIX MY MIND to THINK that I am OWED SUBMISSION is if I HAVE APPROVED MYSELF FOR IT. But AGAIN UNLESS I’m MARRIED to MYSELF my JUDGEMENT in that UNDERSTANDING is COMPLETELY USELESS… My RESPONSIBILITY is to BE the MAN that YAH DESIGNED for ME to BE CONCERNING her and LET THAT BE WHAT LEADS HER TO TRUE SUBMISSION because it CONNECTS with her REAL PERSON as OPPOSED to her JUST DOING it because of RELIGION or ANYTHING ELSE made it a REQUIREMENT…

Yesterday I said that NAKED and NOT ASHAMED is where you need to be because THEN you are HANDLING the REAL PERSON as opposed to an UNDERSTANDING. Because I STAY NAKED before my baby SHE can SEE the MAN and BUILD a REALITY AROUND the MAN, the RITE the WRONG, the PRETTY and the UGLY. She can SEE where HER ENERGY as my WOMAN GOES because I DON’T HIDE it. So it makes it EASIER for HER to SUBMIT HERSELF to me because she SEES that IN HER SUBMISSION she has JUST as MUCH INFLUENCE on the MAN as I HAVE on the MAN. And WOMEN NEED to SEE that… They NEED to SEE the NEED, the WORK and the RESULT of their SUBMISSION if they are to HAVE ENERGY to RETAIN that IDENTITY… So TECHNICALLY your WOMAN’S SUBMISSION to YOU is BASED on your SUBMISSION to her in a LOT of ways. And I think MANY of us MEN get HUNG UP RITE there… And the REASON for that is because we have been TAUGHT a VERSION of MANHOOD that REALLY is NOT MANHOOD, just an EXAGGERATED VERSION ADOLESCENCE. MANHOOD means STRENGTH, NOT DOMINATION… We as MEN NEED to have the STRENGTH to ALLOW for OUR REAL SELVES to be SEEN so OUR WOMAN can CONNECT with and SUBMIT her BEING to the CARE of THE MAN as OPPOSED to the IMAGE.

When YOU and YOUR SPOUSE are NAKED to one another you AREN’T DISCONNECTED from their VULNERABILITY because YOU have the VERY SAME VULNERABILITY ISSUE. So you HANDLE them with the CARE that YOUR OWN BEING REMINDS YOU is NECESSARY for HEALTH and GROWTH… We as PEOPLE have been DRIVEN so far OUTSIDE of our OWN REALITY that WHAT SHOULD be NATURAL we STUMBLE at… WE ARE MORE WORRIED ABOUT OURSELVES and OUR OWN IMAGE as OPPOSED to BUILDING OUR SPOUSES. What’s the POINT of MARRIAGE then?… I’m BUILDING a LIFE with my WOMAN so WHO NEEDS to TEACH ME HOW to BUILD according to her DESIGN so that I’m ACTAULLY BUILDING HER as OPPOSED to MY ON IMAGE as a MAN?… And in the SITUATION where SOMEONE MAY feel NEGLECTED what would BE the BEST COURSE of ACTION? Find OUT WHAT EXACTLY is PUSHING them AWAY or CAUSING for there to be a DISCONNECT. If you BARK at your WOMAN about what she ISN’T DOING CORRECTLY, THAT DOES NOT GIVE HER the ENERGY to WANT to do it or even the KNOW HOW to CONNECT her BEING to ANY REAL ENERGY to DO IT. This is WHY LEADERSHIP is SOOO IMPORTANT for us MEN to UNDERSTAND and TRAIN OURSELVES according to. BLASTING ORDERS is a FAR CRY FROM LEADERSHIP BROTHERS… The TRUE UNDERSTANDING of LEADERSHIP means YOU GO FIRST, if YOU didn’t KNOW that… You want SUBMISSION you better KNOW HOW to SUBMIT then because that’s the ONLY REAL WAY you’re GONNA TEACH YOUR WOMAN and GIVE her THE REAL ENERGY to do so.

Don’t GET me WRONG I AM ONE THOUSAND PERCENT MAN, and I LOVE BEING the MAN. I LOVE for my baby to SUBMIT to me and I LOVE for her to MAKE me FEEL LIKE I’m the MAN. But MY UNDERSTANDING of MANHOOD is, if I LOVE it SO MUCH then I NEED to be ABLE to PRODUCE it as WELL. I NEED to MAKE her FEEL that I am SUBMITTTED COMPLETELY to HER WELL BEING and CARE JUST as MUCH as I EXPECT her to be to MINE. And THAT MEANS LEADING HER by my EXAMPLE… My BABY is QUEEN, she don’t have to try at it, she don’t have to think about it’s just WHO and WHAT she is. And with a QUEEN comes QUEEN type LOVE and SUBMISSION, but that QUEEN ALSO NEEDS QUEEN TYPE ENERGY SUPPLIED to her if I PLAN TO SEE ANY OF IT CONSISTANTLY.

One more thing that I want us BROTHERS to KEEP in MIND is, YOU can GO to WORK and 16hr DAYS to PROVIDE a HOME and BEAUTY for your WOMAN. And if that’s what YOU do then YOU SHOULD be RESPECTED for doing that and CERTAIN PROVISIONS SHOULD be AFFORDED to you. But THAT DOES NOT GENERATE TRUE SUBMISSION AT ALL, TRUE SUBMISSION is ONLY GENERATED by INCREASING and MINISTERING to the ACTUAL PERSON and ALLOWING for THEM to CONNECT their BEING to the RESPONSIBILITY and the ENERGY that MAKES TRUE SUBMISSION. So those 16hr DAYS DEFINITELY HELP BUILD the MARRIAGE STRUCTURE but it DOES NOT BUILD your SPOUSE into the UNDERSTANDING of SUBMISSION to the MAN if the MAN has NOT BUILT HER PROPERLY. A GOOD WOMAN who has been BUILT PROPERLY by her MAN RESPONDS to HIS NEEDS and SUPPLIES the VITAL ENERGY to him to CONTINUE his COURSE, but SHE HAS to BE BUILT INTO that UNDERSTANDING of HERSELF by YOUR LEADERSHIP… LEADERSHIP ALWAYS TRUMPS DOMINATION or BUILDING a PERSON ALWAYS TRUMPS BUILDING an IMAGE…

Tomorrow we continue our course

#BlackMagicIII

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